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Hearing Is Believing
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One of Oakdales most dedicated football supporters, Steve Gokey cheers on the Mustangs after a playoff win this postseason. - photo by IKE DODSON/THE LEADER

Steve Gokey says the only time he has been early to anything was when he was born two and half months premature in 1952.

“I weighed in at a healthy two and a half pounds,” Gokey recalled with a laugh on Sunday. “I was literally a handful.”

Fifty-nine years after his unexpected early arrival left him fighting for his life and permanently blind, Gokey’s journey has built a reputation across the country. He’s appeared in the Seattle Times, USA Today, on ESPN and lately on the sidelines of Oakdale High football games.

The Turlock native, former Modesto Police employee, longtime Modesto A’s coach and veteran of nearly 30 full marathons was seen at 13 of Oakdale’s 14 varsity games during his final season on the Oakdale sidelines.

He missed Oakdale’s win at Kimball of Tracy for a half-marathon in Seattle, but caught the next eight victories and was on hand for Oakdale’s loss to Del Oro in the Sac-Joaquin Section finals on Friday night at Sac State.

Gokey says he has the best seat in the house from the Oakdale sidelines, and no one picks up on the sounds of the game quite like he does.

“It’s a sound world for me, and I even dream in sounds,” Gokey said. “I can often tell what the penalty is before the officials say anything to the coaches because I can hear them talking to each other in the middle of the field.

“My hearing is really, really good.”

Gokey said his heart was broken during the final minutes of Oakdale’s defeat on Friday. Emotions overwhelmed him as the hopes and dreams of Oakdale players were overtaken in a 21-7 Del Oro win. Gokey moves to Seattle to reunite with his fiancée on Monday, so the 2011 season represented his final year as a staple on the Mustang sidelines.

“My problem is I am a really emotional guy and I pull together every ounce of energy I have on those sidelines every week,” Gokey said. “The kids worked so hard and put forth such a commitment this year, and I felt so awful afterwards.

“It was just so hard watching those kids suffer.”

Gokey said though Oakdale was a big underdog to top-25 nationally ranked Del Oro, he wouldn’t have considered it an upset if Oakdale had won the game.

“I think at this point you have to focus on what a tremendous team this was to set a record for wins and show the incredible chemistry they had,” Gokey said. “I hate teams that quit and there was no quit in this team. I was so proud of them.

“They were 13-0 and got beat by a good football team in a position where the winner was going to go south (state bowl game). That (state bowl game) was my secret goal all year and I would mention it to ‘Merz’ (Oakdale coach Trent Merzon) privately.”

Gokey struggled to avoid tears when referring to coach Merzon, who decided to make him part of the program when they met in 2004. Merzon agreed to give Gokey a chance to listen to the game from the sidelines and the two have been close ever since.

“The whole coaching staff has been wonderful to me, and I can’t stress how tremendous Merz has been to me,” Gokey choked out. “I have to tell you that it has been so exciting to be ¾ and let’s clearly define this ¾ a very small fish in a very big pond who plays a minimal role in a tremendous team and experience.”

Gokey’s role is obvious when Oakdale needs motivation most. He leads chants, ignites support from the Oakdale crowd and paces the sidelines with emotion that mirrors the action on the field as if he can see it with his own eyes.

It’s the thrill of the sideline that led Gokey to the decision to wait until the end of the football season to move to Seattle to join his future wife Lynn Mains.

He said she didn’t necessarily agree with his decision to stay until the season was over, but he had no plans of abandoning the Mustangs mid-season.

“I told her that once I walk on that field I am in this for the long haul and committed to this team,” Gokey said. “People make commitments in their lives that they don’t hold themselves to, but I will stay committed until the end.”

Gokey said he plans to marry his “beautiful, wonderful, attentive, kind and gentle” fiancée this month after he moves to Seattle, but hasn’t ruled out the possibility of one day returning to the Oakdale football sideline.

“I am very fortunate to have been part of this program and though I hope none of these kids will ever have a child with a disability, if it happens I hope he can look back and say that ‘he did pretty well with one’,” Gokey said. “Hopefully I will have a little bit of an impact because these kids have had such a tremendous impact on me.”

Playoffs Start Friday - Oakdale Sets Aside Rival Sonora In VOL Finale
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Brock Whiting busts through the Sonora defense for a first quarter touchdown run that put the Mustangs in control of the game that they went on to win, 28-21. - photo by Photo Courtesy Of Mary Hackbarth

Pressure’s on Patterson.

Oakdale’s varsity football team, which may as well have started its playoff run two weeks ago when a loss to Kimball put it on must-win status, punched its ticket to the Sac-Joaquin Section playoffs with a 28-21 stuffing of age-old rival Sonora in the last Valley Oak League meeting of the two clubs.

Both are single high school towns and have been hitting each other since 1922 with helmets and pads and, as witnessed with this year’s matchup, just about everything else on plays near to and far away from the ball. Sonora came into this year’s finale playing for pride and a chance to wound Oakdale’s by knocking it out of the playoffs in the last game of the season, and they had a perfect chance to in the second quarter with the teams tied at seven after breakaway runs by both squads electrified the crowd. But the Mustangs would not be denied a trip to the postseason by anyone, certainly not the Wildcats.

Sophomore Darus Nelson, somehow slipped wide-open into the end zone, and settled under a rainbow pass that was more like a punt as it plummeted towards him. As the stadium rose and the ball descended, so did a Sonora defender who had a free shot as Nelson and the stadium waited for the ball. Nelson was smacked to the turf just an instant after he touched the ball, but held on to put the Mustangs up 14-7 and then they extended it the lead to 21-7 at the half.

Now, after running a gauntlet of tough pre-season scheduling and making it through some mid-season shakiness, Oakdale is looking rough and ready as it rides into the first round of the Sac-Joaquin Section playoffs for a first-round date with a suddenly vulnerable Patterson team on Friday, Nov. 15.

The Tigers, out for the undefeated record and Western Athletic Conference crown last week at small school power Central Catholic, had its hopes dashed as their rival Raiders ran off with the WAC title. Patterson had the lead at the half, 13-3, but were shut out in the second half, eventually falling 17-13 to the Raiders.

One wonders what rhetoric is being raised in Patterson coach Nick Marchey’s talks with his team as they try to recover in time to host their biggest playoff game in years. In the driver’s seat just last Friday, but now suddenly on the endangered list with another local power coming to town, the pressure of the playoffs is where the wheels fall off for the Tigers once-dream season or the program pulls off one of the biggest wins in its history.

The winner on Friday of the Mustangs-Tigers match up will take that momentum heading into Round 2 on Nov. 22 for a matchup against the #5 Sacramento - #12 Benicia winner.

After that, there would surely be no dodging of top seed American Canyon, and Oakdale’s team is ready for the run.

The now-seasoned core of juniors and seniors gained invaluable playoff experience in last year’s state runner-up finish – especially in early round routs and during the game against Sonora, Coach Arpoika was back in the headset on the sidelines, his twin sons and other members of last year’s inaugural Northern California Champions squad including Spencer Thomas and Tyler Malone there to support the 2013 team.

On defense, Kyle Osborne had his second pick in as many weeks and Broderick Medrano, closed fast and put a heat-seeking shot on Sonora’s Andrew Nessi near the Wildcat sideline where the tailback would soon be seen with his pads removed and shoulder in a sling. Medrano had his own sideline time with a trainer, performing the who-what-where-when-and-why one-foot wobble after coming off the field after the collision, but was enjoying the moment just as much as the rest of the team that doesn’t look ready to take their jerseys off just yet.

Oakdale has three established backs, two of whom sealed off Sonora’s chances with big plays. On special teams with Dillon Tamburrino holding, Lane Trapp is perfect for PAT’s if not for one block on the season, and when Nelson got stood up and stripped of the ball after a long run and a scrum ensued, senior linebacker Brynden MacAndrews had his back and snuck away out of the backside of the pile to recover it.

The Mustangs, after a Tamburrino pass, who connected over the middle with Dillon Farquhar early on and had it going with Nelson late in the game, threw a pick into double coverage deep in Sonora’s territory, Coach Trent Merzon congratulated the senior as he came off the field.

“Nice punt,” Merzon deadpanned.

The Mustang defense held and Nelson broke off a winded Sonora team with a long touchdown run to put the up Mustangs 28-7. In a rivalry that spanned 91 years, meeting for the last time as league rivals, the Mustangs left with the upper hand this year and all-time 57-31-5.

One of the state’s oldest rivalries ended respectfully.

Landon Ichord drilled Sonora quarterback Zach Atwood to the turf late in the second half and immediately helped him up heading back to the huddle. Sonora put two late touchdowns on the board, the last with 35 seconds left after a fourth and 9 penalty on the Mustangs gave Atwood one last series of downs to run the Wing-T.

On the third play from scrimmage, Atwood zigged and zagged into the end zone for a late score and two final shots by Mustangs defenders. The ensuing squib kick was recovered by Tyler Williams, who took it back to the sideline amid Mustang hollers and congratulations, from a collective unit that is playing fast and loose at just the right time.

Game time Friday night in Patterson, as the Oakdale team starts the second season, is 7 p.m.